Sometimes he jokes about leaving you or having another girl just to see you broken and crying so he can feel he has control over you. Get it together, he is obviously playing a huge mind game with you, as these situations show him how much power he exerts over you without getting a reaction from you.
Remember that, girl. Always remember that! It hurts to see that the guy you like is not interested in your daily activities, life, habits, interests and so on.
That should be worrying you because it is a sign of a mind game. But wait a minute. Do you really want to go back over and over again, and be played with again?
Do you want to hear the same stories about him changing over and over again? I don't think so. So, it is best for you to just call it quits and let him be a douche. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
You don't need him, he is not the only guy out there. Let him play mind games with someone else, not with you. But hey, don't give up on love just because of this. He's playing hard to get, yet he can have you anytime he wants, playing his mind game with you.
Think about it and ask yourself if it has happened. If the answer is yes, then that is not cool at all, at least not for you because he is using you for his needs and pleasure, and you are not an object to be used for such things. You are a human too, you have feelings and he needs to respect that and stop acting like a little boy playing with his toys. You don't want to be in a relationship where the only way for you to get his attention is on his bed.
Let's face it, nowadays it's all about being present and popular on the internet. Whether you want it or not, it's now an integral part of our lives. We share our life and intimacy with 'friends' and both known and unknown people. We are playing a social media game where we show how perfect our lives are, even though they're not. When you are in a relationship, you want to introduce your boyfriend to the world and proudly post it on Facebook, Instagram, etc.
However, he avoids any attempt to take a photo with you, he hides when you try to record something, and, on top of everything, it makes him mad. It's a little suspicious, don't you think? When you are with someone and when you're having a great time together, you want to create a mutual memory to remind you of those moments. If his words align with his actions, great!
This is a strong sign of immaturity and he may also have learned this from the same pickup artist who told him to act like a jerk to make you like him. He might talk about other women to you or flirt with other women in from of you. When we really like someone, we want to know everything. We want to know their full history- every scar and every scratch and every story. Deep down, you already know the truth. Your gut instincts are there for a reason and they are a powerful tool when used correctly.
I hope this article helped you gain some clarity and insight. Now we talked a lot about how a guy can be unsure about you and like you just a little … but do you know what it takes for a guy to like you a lot? It may be something about the relationship or it may have nothing to do with the relationship. I love writing relatable, insightful articles that help people understand relationship dynamics and how to get the love they want.
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How often does he call and text? Question 1 of Written by Sabrina Alexis. He behaved as if I were being irrational for asking that he treat me with common courtesy. There are a number of reasons people play mind games, but the goal is usually to gain a sense of control or power over another person. The player wants to get a specific response, but instead of telling you what they need or asking for what they want, they try to get their needs met by using manipulative tactics.
The best thing to do when you realize someone is playing mind games with you is to bless them with love, stop communicating, and move on with your life. It can sometimes be difficult to tell the difference between someone who might be a little insecure or socially awkward from a person who is actively trying to manipulate you. Here are some things to look for to help you figure it out. Their insecurity and need to make you feel less than you are is the real problem.
You are a mirror for them, and the way they speak to you is the way their inner self-talk speaks to them. They want you to question reality so you feel off balance. I recently had this done to me and I thought I was losing my mind.
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